# Unpleasant Truths Make For Pleasant Relationships > What I've Been Thinking About Lately #18 **Published by:** [WIBTAL](https://wibtal.com/) **Published on:** 2023-10-20 **URL:** https://wibtal.com/18 ## Content As a general rule, as long as it is in good faith, the more someone is willing to tell me unpleasant truthful things, the more pleasant I find our relationship.This past week was probably the busiest of my life and it seems like every to do list item I cross off, two more appear. This doesn't feel great, but Alex Slobo provided me with the positive frame of, "With a never ending list of things you want to do, you'll never be limited by opportunity not being available to you". To make a gaming analogy, it's better to live a life like Skyrim, where you choose your journey and direction, rather than Mario, where one can only move right. ## Publication Information - [WIBTAL](https://wibtal.com/): Publication homepage - [All Posts](https://wibtal.com/): More posts from this publication - [RSS Feed](https://api.paragraph.com/blogs/rss/@wibtal): Subscribe to updates - [Twitter](https://twitter.com/wibtal): Follow on Twitter ## Optional - [Collect as NFT](https://wibtal.com/18): Support the author by collecting this post - [View Collectors](https://wibtal.com/18/collectors): See who has collected this post